WOW ! ! ! What A WEDDING ! ! !

Shamima Nasrin
3 min readMar 15, 2018

Attending a wedding somehow reminds our golden day, I mean our wedding day. The day when we got united forever. The day that made everything look so beautiful and perfect for us. The day when we dressed and adored ourselves to make our beloved so surprised that, the one we loved so much would say, “My Gosh HONEY, you look so beautiful ! ! !”.

You know what? I did the same thing too. I took time, and bought everything that would make me look amazing. I dressed so beautifully, adored stunningly, and when he saw me he said, “My love, you look so beautiful, just like an angel…”. His eyes were filled with tears, he could hardly stop them fall.

Remember your wedding? The pre-night you were so restless for the next upcoming beautiful day. You could hardly sleep. All night you kept wondering, “how would she look, how would I dress up to make it perfect, what will I say when I see her…My God I can’t wait for the morning”. And when the morning arrived, all your friends and relatives came. Your friends helped you to dress up. And you rushed to your destination when the clock ticked in the right time. You went there and waited for your bride. And in all the rush of decorating and guest attendance, your heart stopped when your beautiful bride entered. Your eyes didn’t dare to blink. Your watch was ticking and the whole hall was ssshhhuuuussshhhh…. And there, in the middle of everyone, there comes your bride in the perfect white gown. Holding her father’s arm she entered the hall. She was blushing, smiling, like she never looked so beautiful earlier. And you were so amazed to see her. It was the moment when you begged to seize the time in your heart.

WOW … What a moment …

And if I speak of the time that you spent with your LOVE before marriage, It cannot be described in words, right? The first glimpse of her when the first time you met. She softly smiled that worked like a sweet knife stabbing your heart. Her shyness made you want her more. The eagerness of next meeting was like, “I wish to meet her now, touch her, and kiss her, reach to her soul…”. You invited for a lunch in restaurant. Sometimes offered her candlelight dinners. The love letters with the sticker of kiss and heart throbbing gifts you gave each other, and when the day of the proposal came, you sat on one knee offering her life as a gift to you by marrying you. And with all the joy she said, “YEEEESSSS… Yes, I will marry you… ” .

My Gosh, the dream day of every girl. I know how much you were scared before proposing, and how much happier after her acceptance. It’s the love between you two which made you two perfect for each other.

But now those sweet moments have somehow lost in all the workloads. Your business and her chores somehow left those moments far behind. But in your heart, there is still a wish that twinkles to come out. And the truth is she also has a craving for the love you made earlier? In her heart, she also wishes to see the same man she married? Listen to your heart, surprise her with your love. Show her you remember all the moments only you two spent. The moments only you two lived, the hard times you passed together by holding hands, and the promise you made to each other, “I take you as my better half for life and I will stand by you in better and worse, in rich and in poor, in sickness and in health, and to love and cherish till we are parted by death”.

A lovely moment to seize, a lovely new life is gained. Marriage is not the ending of love, it’s just the beginning of another love-story with the same person in a new way.

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Shamima Nasrin

I’m a software engineer, love to travel, love food and most importantly, love life. And I’m an analyst.